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Me in brief:  
 
Me in brief:  
* I coach people in clearing anger, bitterness & other negative emotions. I'm keen to be evidence-based about this, but in this field, evidence is often fuzzy, and experience is an important guide.
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* I'm a life coach – areas of focus intlude clearing anger, bitterness & other negative emotions. I'm keen to be evidence-based about this, but in this field, evidence is often fuzzy, and experience is an important guide.
 
* I've worked in sustainability knowledge-sharing.
 
* I've worked in sustainability knowledge-sharing.
 
* I know about wikis, and help run [http://appropedia.org/ Appropedia], the sustainability wiki.
 
* I know about wikis, and help run [http://appropedia.org/ Appropedia], the sustainability wiki.
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== Sequences: Achieving awesomeness ==
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Work in progress. Suggestions appreciated. Boldly edit the page, or leave a message on my [[User palk:Chriswaterguy|talk page]].
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=== Productivity/effectiveness ===
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(Under development)
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* [[The Science of Winning at Life]] - sequence by lukeprog
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* Nate Soares' posts on productivity, listed on [[User:So8res|his user page]]
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(+ Look up Eliezer's posts on productivity, effectiveness and akrasia.)
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=== Achieving awesomeness by learning better ===
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(To be developed)
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* [http://lesswrong.com/lw/k4n/a_brief_summary_of_effective_study_methods/ A brief summary of effective study methods] – Arran_Stirton
  
 
== A communication sequence ==
 
== A communication sequence ==
 
(Work in progress. Suggestions appreciated.)
 
  
 
Social aspects of communication (or is that a tautology?):
 
Social aspects of communication (or is that a tautology?):
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* Dealing with trolls
 
* Dealing with trolls
  
== Dealing with negative emotions ==  
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=== Dealing with negative emotions ===
  
 
(Againstness, noticing)
 
(Againstness, noticing)
  
 
Happiness & depression, e.g. [http://lesswrong.com/lw/jp2/methods_for_treating_depression/ Methods for treating depression]
 
Happiness & depression, e.g. [http://lesswrong.com/lw/jp2/methods_for_treating_depression/ Methods for treating depression]
 
== Achieving awesomeness ==
 
 
* [[The Science of Winning at Life]] - sequence by lukeprog
 
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* Nate Soares' posts on productivity, listed on [[User:So8res|his user page]]
 
 
(+ Look up Eliezer's posts on productivity, effectiveness and akrasia.)
 
 
=== Achieving awesomeness by learning better ===
 
 
(To be developed)
 
* [http://lesswrong.com/lw/k4n/a_brief_summary_of_effective_study_methods/ A brief summary of effective study methods] – Arran_Stirton
 

Revision as of 13:18, 15 February 2015

Me in brief:

  • I'm a life coach – areas of focus intlude clearing anger, bitterness & other negative emotions. I'm keen to be evidence-based about this, but in this field, evidence is often fuzzy, and experience is an important guide.
  • I've worked in sustainability knowledge-sharing.
  • I know about wikis, and help run Appropedia, the sustainability wiki.

Sequences: Achieving awesomeness

Work in progress. Suggestions appreciated. Boldly edit the page, or leave a message on my talk page.

Productivity/effectiveness

(Under development)

(+ Look up Eliezer's posts on productivity, effectiveness and akrasia.)

Achieving awesomeness by learning better

(To be developed)

A communication sequence

Social aspects of communication (or is that a tautology?):

Emotion, making sense, and anticipating reactions:

  • Politics is the Mind-Killer – Avoiding emotional & tribal identity triggers. "Politics is an important domain to which we should individually apply our rationality—but it's a terrible domain in which to learn rationality, or discuss rationality, unless all the discussants are already rational." & "it doesn't matter whether (you think) the [specific political party] really is at fault. It's just better for the spiritual growth of the community to discuss the issue without invoking color politics."
  • Policy Debates Should Not Appear One-Sided – "there is no reason for complex actions with many consequences to exhibit this onesidedness property." "Two primary drivers of policy-one-sidedness are the affect heuristic and the just-world fallacy." Avoid using arguments as soldiers.
  • Policy Debates Should Not Appear One-Sided (discusses arguments as soldiers)
  • Philosophical Landmines – "If something you say makes people go off on a spiral of bad philosophy, don't get annoyed with them, just fix what you say. This is just being a communications consequentialist."
    • Responding to a landmine explosion: It may be best to "abort the conversation." Alternatively, a commenter suggests, "stop taking sides and talk about the plus and minuses of each side."
  • (Something more about emotional triggers?)

Understanding and being understood:

Biases, heuristics and fallacies that affect communication:

Disagreeing:

Online communication (for further exploration):

  • Text-based communication
  • Dealing with trolls

Dealing with negative emotions

(Againstness, noticing)

Happiness & depression, e.g. Methods for treating depression